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'They knew before I knew': Siblings forge new bond through LGBTQ+ community

Logan Shaver was in for quite the surprise when he came out to his sister as a teenager

'They knew before I knew': Siblings forge new bond through LGBTQ+ community

Logan Shaver was in for quite the surprise when he came out to his sister as a teenager

HE MAY NEVER FACE JAIL TIME. THIS PRIDE MONTH, WE’RE DISCOVERING MANY PEOPLE IN THE LGBTQ PLUS COMMUNITY WITHIN CREDIBLE STORIES OF EXPERIENCES, RESILIENCE AND COMMON GROUND. FIRST NEWS CO-ANCHOR DONNA PITMAN INTRODUCES US TO A BROTHER AND SISTER WHO SHARE MORE THAN GENETIC. I ALWAYS GREW UP A TOMBOY, PLAYED SPORTS. I NEVER WORE DRESSES. IT’S FUNNY BECAUSE MY PARENTS WILL TELL PEOPLE THAT THEY KNEW BEFORE I KNEW. I FIRST KNEW THAT I WAS GAY, PROBABLY WHEN I WAS 6 OR 730. NOW, AS A TEENAGER, LESLIE HUNTER’S DAD FOUND OUT WHEN HE ACCIDENTALLY READ A MESSAGE ON HER COMPUTER. IT DIDN’T COME OUT OF THE CLOSET. I FELL OUT. HE CRIED BECAUSE HE WANTED TO PROTECT ME FROM ALL OF THE BAD IN THE WORLD. AND HE KNEW THAT NOT EVERYBODY WOULD ACCEPT IT. LESLIE AND BROTHER LOGAN GREW UP THE OLDEST OF FOUR, SIMILAR TO MOST PEOPLE AROUND HERE, CHEERING FOR THE CHIEFS, ROOTING ON THE ROYALS. ONE DIFFERENCE TWO OF THE SIBLINGS FELT DIFFERENT. I HAVE AN AUNT THAT HAS A LOT OF OF GAY FRIENDS IN HER LIFE AND SHE TELLS A STORY ALL THE TIME THAT SHE WENT TO WORK ONE DAY AND SHE SAID, LISTEN, YOU KNOW, MY MY NEPHEW IS GAY. AND THEY’RE LIKE, OH, HOW OLD IS HE? DID HE JUST COME OUT? AND SHE’S LIKE, NO, HE’S THREE. LIKE, HE HE JUST DOESN’T KNOW YET. AS A TEEN, LOGAN CAME OUT FIRST TO HIS SISTER, WHO, TO HIS SURPRISE, SHARED, SHE’S A LESBIAN, ACCEPTING PARENTS A NEW BOND WITH BIG SIS. FOR ME, IT’S, YOU KNOW, KNOWING THAT PEOPLE KNEW BEFORE I DID IS JUST I DON’T KNOW IT’S IT’S ALMOST SPECIAL IN A WAY. A WAY THAT EMPHASIZES WHAT LOGAN KNOWS. HE’S LUCKY DONNA PITMAN, KMBC NINE NEWS. AND YOU MAY HAVE NOTICED THE SIBLINGS LAST NAMES ARE
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'They knew before I knew': Siblings forge new bond through LGBTQ+ community

Logan Shaver was in for quite the surprise when he came out to his sister as a teenager

This Pride Month, we're discovering many people in the LGBTQ+ community with incredible stories of differences, resilience, and common ground.Our sister station KMBC talked with a brother and sister who share more than their genetics.Meet Kansas City, Missouri, native Leslie Hunter. “Always grew up a tomboy played sports never wore dresses," Hunter said. Her brother Logan Shaver says, "It's funny because my parents will tell people they knew before I knew!" Shaver said. Both of the siblings identify as gay. That common ground has bonded them after years of feeling like they needed to keep who they were close to their chest. "I first knew that I was gay probably when I was 6 or 7," Hunter said. Now 30, Hunter said her dad found out when he accidentally read a message on her computer when she was a teenager."I didn't come out of the closet — I fell out," Hunter said.The news was difficult for their father to receive, but not because he didn’t feel he could accept who his daughter was. "He cried because he wanted to protect me from all the bad in the world. He knew not everyone would accept it," Hunter said.The brother and sister grew up the oldest of four. As children, they knew they felt different than many of their peers, even before they could articulate how. “For me, knowing people knew before I did, it's almost special in a way," Shaver said. The two siblings feel unbelievably lucky to have someone in their own family who can intrinsically understand the experience of discovering their identity growing up. The sister and brother both laugh recalling telling their two younger brothers. The boys’ replied, “Okay. But we like girls.” You may have noticed that the siblings' last names are different. That's because Hunter got married last December.

This Pride Month, we're discovering many people in the LGBTQ+ community with incredible stories of differences, resilience, and common ground.

Our sister station KMBC talked with a brother and sister who share more than their genetics.

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Meet Kansas City, Missouri, native Leslie Hunter.

“Always grew up a tomboy played sports never wore dresses," Hunter said.

Her brother Logan Shaver says, "It's funny because my parents will tell people they knew before I knew!" Shaver said.

Both of the siblings identify as gay. That common ground has bonded them after years of feeling like they needed to keep who they were close to their chest.

"I first knew that I was gay probably when I was 6 or 7," Hunter said.

Now 30, Hunter said her dad found out when he accidentally read a message on her computer when she was a teenager.

"I didn't come out of the closet — I fell out," Hunter said.

The news was difficult for their father to receive, but not because he didn’t feel he could accept who his daughter was.

"He cried because he wanted to protect me from all the bad in the world. He knew not everyone would accept it," Hunter said.

The brother and sister grew up the oldest of four. As children, they knew they felt different than many of their peers, even before they could articulate how.

“For me, knowing people knew before I did, it's almost special in a way," Shaver said.

The two siblings feel unbelievably lucky to have someone in their own family who can intrinsically understand the experience of discovering their identity growing up.

The sister and brother both laugh recalling telling their two younger brothers. The boys’ replied, “Okay. But we like girls.”

You may have noticed that the siblings' last names are different. That's because Hunter got married last December.